she said, looking me square in the eye, holding the tweezers in her hand. I was 16. My incredibly beautiful, dark-skinned, truth-speaking cousin in her early 20s, formally ushered me into a world of endless wanting. — At 43, self-crafting eyebrows, is a source of pride. For years, they were professionally done - by talented women from India, holding one end of a long white thread in between their teeth, and the other in a ninja knot that pulls exactly the correct pieces of eyebrow off my…